Ever emphasized on self introspection ?

Today YOU are YOU !!.. This is TRUER than TRUE that there is no-one alive who is YOUER than YOU !!

 Self Introspection is a careful examination of one's own  feelings .This is a self reflection without taking into consideration any external observation. It is basically  an inward focusing on mental experiences, such as sensations or feelings. - a  conscious mental and purposive process relaying on thinking, reasoning, and examination of ones own thoughts and perceptions.

Now a question that well arises is why do we need to introspect ourselves !!..

Self introspection helps us to notice  the negative patterns arising in our life.We are able to analyse our weaknesses and act accordingly to work upon them. We are able to analyse the reasons for our frustrations , failures and inconsistencies , which cause detrimental effects on aur emotions and outlook , but we are able to find alternate approaches and migrate overcoming all sorts of stress. 

It keeps us focussed on bigger picture that we have for our life .When we don't have an overall goal in mind, our steps to pursue our goals  become meaningless and increasingly annoying . Therefore, it's important to have a clear picture  of where you want to see yourself in the future.Self introspection generates positive attitude for our future obligations.

It restrains us from worrying about things that we don't have control over .It's difficult to realize the fact that we don't always have total control of the result that we expect , and sometimes, we have no choice but to adapt to unfavorable conditions.Introspection allows us to eventually deatch from these aspects over which we have no control , and instead, direct our energy toward things we can absolutely improve on ourselves.

It helps us to define happiness for ourselves .When are you most happy? Who do you most enjoy spending time with? What accomplishments are you most proud of and why?

These questions may seem cliche,but they hold a lot of value. By recognizing the positivities in your life, you can apply your mind on future goals and endeavors and perspectives.

Last but not the least and in fact the most important it allows us to make decisions based on our conscience . When it comes to making significant life decisions, the important people in your life will naturally have opinions and may be you are bound to follow them . However, introspection helps you make decisions based on fully understanding what is right or wrong for you.Make choices based on what you truly believe, without letting other people’s input sway you in your decisions . While it's okay to ask for others' advice and feedback, ultimately, trust your gut — it won't fail you.

So, out of your busy routine do try to take out few minutes to introspect yourself !!....

Why don't you do what you want to do ?

The more you love your decisions the less you need others to love them. Well very rightly said it is !!
As we grow up and become capable of making our own choices what influences most the step we take is how our decision will be critically viewed by society , our peers and our mates etc..This actually ,sometimes prompts us to choose a path that we actually never wanted , a path that we never wanted to traverse on ,following something not of our interest . Mind it , when you forcefully follow something , just motivated by what other's said , you will not only be deprived of personal satisfaction and happiness but also a deep seated regret that you couldn't do what you actually wanted. See , at the end of the day what matters is how much contended you are with what you have , not what other's will think if I do this or do that.  These ' other's ' won't comfort you in your dark times. You are solely responsible for whatever you do , what path you take ,because your decisions will affect you ....not others and a single decision can always have far reaching consequences which you couldn't even think of !!..The difference between who you want to be and what you actually are is WHAT YOU DID !!..Follow your interests , your passions , what you actually want without any external interference because at the end of the day whatever the outcome is ..good or bad, fruitful or not !!..their won't be anyone to blame ..only you !!..Mind it , here I don't endorse anywhere that you don't take advice from others , surely consult whom you think will give you the best advice , not many because whole world out awaits to misguide you , very rarely someone will show you the correct track !!.. Analyse what they say and make a bold decision without giving it a thought how will others perceive your decision. See the truth is , only once you get a chance follow yourself . Never go out in search of a popular personality and duplicate it . Be yourself . You are unique and so what you will do . In the end !!..DO YOUR THING !!..DO IT UNAPOLOGETICALLY !!..DON'T BE DISCOURAGED BY CRITICISMS ..PAY NO MIND TO WHAT THEY SAY !!..TAKE OWNERSHIP , TAKE CHANCES AND HAVE FUN !!..No matter what NEVER STOP DOING YOUR THING !!..

Lost in the deep dark solitude ?..

It is well said that monotony and solitude of a quiet life stimulates a creative mind. A mind stimulated today !! In everyone's life their comes a moment when they realize that every single existence in their life is temporary. Everything is transient and nothing will last forever .A day is bound to come when you yourself will be your entire world, your actions ,thoughts everything will be guided just by you , centered around only YOU !!....Well , circumstances build up by default in such a way that this sort of stillness is meant to enter your life .You will always ask to yourself am I the reason behind this state of mine ? And you won't get any answer . Your utterly perplexed mind will not give you any appropriate reason behind such a state of solitude , totally secluded !! You may enter into a depressed state of mind as to what is happening and why !! Why am I the victim ??...Again you won't get any reason. You will find yourself lost....entirely lost !!No clear ,lucid way of it ! ..You only you ....sitting on a green woody trunk amidst tall thick trees , darkness prevailing nothing else ..nothing else !!..Well where are you ?  You are into the woods of SOLITUDE- A good place to visit but definitely a traumatic place to stay. In fact when you will try to reason out who actually took you there ..You won't get an answer . And the bitter truth is ..majority of us are bound to go through this state once in our lifetime. NO escapism indeed. And what happens is once you spend a prolonged period in this state  a blame game begins and whom are you going to tag the culprit as ?...YOU YOURSELF!!..But mark my words !!..It's not you who is responsible..may be partially you are !!..The principle responsibility lies on the circumstances . The situations will build up in such away. Unexpected things will happen..beyond your imagination and all this stuff is meant to put you there - in the woods of solitude . But who will return won't be you ..not you !!..A stronger person than ever before .A person capable of facing anything in life because he has already undergone the so called darkest phase- A STATE OF TYPICAL SOLITUDE !!..Solitude somehow or the other prompts the original human being in us to steep out. A human being who is master of himself, not easily influenced by others and external agencies , a human being who who knows how to encounter anything very well .

In a nutshell , THIS TEMPORARY STATE OF SOLITUDE PRODUCES A PERMANENT YOU !!....

Dropping an year ....A right step or not?

WRITTEN ESPECIALLY FOR ENGINEERING STUDENTS....


After 12th standard ,bulk of students appear for entrance exams all across the country for securing seats in the well renowned colleges of the country. While few will be able to make it to their dream destinations majority are left heartbroken due to rigorous competition. At that moment the first idea that comes to one's mind is taking an year drop. Mark my words taking an year drop is a subjective matter and very crucial from your future point of view. You should not go for a drop until and unless you are almost sure of your success the next year that is you are firmly determined about your target ,  in fact very firmly determined. Now let me tell you what exactly happens. Once we are confirmed that we won't we able to make it to required college or branch we tend to stop thinking logically. We are guided by our emotions and our heart prompts us to take a drop ,we feel motivated that we will surely make it the next time without even thinking about the negative side of it. For instance here I Would like to mention the case of one of my seniors. He got 3457 rank in  the JEE- MAINS but could not make to IIT. He decided to go for  drop although he was easily getting COMPUTER SCIENCE in DTU.  First of all he got completely exhausted and bored while preparing for his entrance .He used to regret over decision when he used to see his school friends and coaching mates in college giving semesters and he studying class 11th and 12th course. Somehow the time passed and came JEE-MAINS the next year. Luck played with him and he had typhoid and couldn't even appear for the exam. What I mean to convey is when you are getting an opportunity avail it rather than letting it go.You can't predict what future has in store for you.Only 1% of the total students who take a drop are able to make it well ,rest all land themselves in even more worse situations. Almost all the students who go for a drop,remain motivated for 2-3 months, no doubt they will study well but after that most go off track. Not their fault even .It's not easy to repeat two year course with same dedication and concentration.It is a challenging task. What I suggest is until and unless you are in extremely worse situation ie not getting any branch in any of the renowned colleges eg IIT , DTU ,NSIT,BITS, IIIT ,NIT do not go for a drop.Branch do matters but college's tag name matters a lot.When you land into world outside people would know you for your college name ie even environmental engineering from DTU is justified .Let me make one more thing clear here that taking up COMPUTER SCIENCE OR RELATED BRANCH even in IP is not a bad option, But do prefer college over branch .Some people may contradict me on this that it is better to pursue your passion rather than college but here I would like to mention that at the end when you will be appearing for placement interviews it will be college that will get you a handsome package,Until and unless you are hard core coder .At last I would just like to say that before taking any final decision consult , consult people whom U think will guide you for your best, your trustworthy people, and avoid taking to too many because that will land you in further more confusions. Life is full of opportunities and one entrance alone can't decide your future . You are meant to get number of opportunities in the future to excel yourself ,You just need to identify them and use them to the fullest and make the best of them.So think not even twice ,ten times before you arrive at a decision. Analyse your strengths and potentials carefully and decide .Carefully think over your situation and if you feel yes you are in worst possible case then confidently drop with a promise to yourself to give you best.


ALL THE BEST.  BE WISE AND BE CALM , CONSULT AND MAKE A RIGHT DECISION.